Are you tired of dating the same old losers? Do you justify it by saying:
"There's nobody interesting in this town."
"I don't meet any exciting people in my job."
Or "All the good ones are taken."
You know you're too good for the pool of potential partners you've been swimming in.
So why do you stay? You've probably become more discriminating than you were in the past. But just as newly slender people have a "lag factor" before their self-image catches up with a dramatic weight loss, you may be experiencing a lag factor in the quality of partner you think you can attract.
Now is the time to make the break and start UpDating! In this unique book, Leil Lowndes gives you forty-eight rock-solid tips for capturing the man or woman you once thought out of your league.
Do you desire a drop-dead gorgeous partner?
Do you want a wealthy or high-class mate?
Do you long for a loving, faithful man or woman with high principles?
Do you crave someone creative, interesting, and maybe famous?
This is the "how-to" you need. But beware. One size does not fit all. You need different strokes to get different types of fabulous folks. The techniques do have one thing in common. They're all foolproof because they're based on statistics and studies of whom these special people wind up marrying.
Following on the heels of her highly successful book, How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You, UpDating! will show you how to update your self-image and dating skills to reel in the partners you used to think were beyond you.
Leil Lowndes is an internationally acclaimed communications consultant whose work has been praised by the New York Times, the Chicago Tribune, and Time magazine. Her articles have appeared in Redbook, New Woman, Psychology Today, Penthouse, and Cosmopolitan. She is the author of five books including the bestselling How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You, How to Be a People Magnet, and How to Talk to Anyone.
Praise for Leil Lowndes's previous work
"Every single person I know asks, 'HOW can I meet her/him?' At last, Leil gives us the answers."
"I'm in love with Leil for writing this book--and you'll feel the same."
"Leil is the best. Absolutely the best."
--Sally Jessy Raphael
Are you tired of dating run of the mill people? You deserve better!
If only you knew how to rope in someone gorgeous, rich, honorable, or more interesting. Let's just call it someone with class! These types of people don't respond to the same old flirtation techniques. You need a unique set of skills to steal the heart of an extraordinary mate.
Following on the heels of Leil Lowndes's bestselling book, How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You, UpDating! now kicks it up a notch and shows you how to attract a special someone who once seemed out of your league. Written in her trademark straight-shooting style, Leil gives you secrets not found anywhere else. Secrets such as how
- To Get a Gorgeous Partner: Don't swoon too soon! Fabulous looking folks actually like someone better if they seem unimpressed at first.
- To Get a Wealthy, High-Class Partner: Decorate your home with class, not crass. You'll learn why a TV or a certain type of carpeting in your living room can knock you out of the running. In fact, take the "How Classy Is Your Home?" quiz to see where your dwelling stands on the totem pole.
- To Get a Principled Partner: Get caught in one teensy little lie and your credibility goes out the door. And the mate with integrity will soon follow.
- To Get an Interesting, "One of a Kind" Partner: Just don't do anything "normal." Leil shows you how to be a desirable "nut" who will win the hearts of those creative types.
Best of all, you'll learn to make the qualities you want in others a part of your own life. You'll learn to like yourself better, and so will everyone else. And that's probably the biggest benefit of all.
Author: Leil Lowndes