ContentsPart OneUnsafe People1. What Is an Unsafe Person?2. Personal Traits of Unsafe People3. Interpersonal Traits of Unsafe People4. How We Lost Our SafetyPart TwoDo I Attract Unsafe People?5. Do I Have a “Safety Deficit”?6. Why Do I Choose Unsafe Relationships?7. False Solutions8. Why Do I Isolate Myself from People?Part ThreeSafe People9. What Are Safe People?10. Why Do We Need Safe People?11. Where Are the Safe People?12. Learning How to Be Safe13. Should I Repair or Replace?